Women's Divorce Blog

13 February 2019

Life After Divorce?

The hurt and disruption caused by a divorce can make you question whether there can be life after divorce. How can I pick up the pieces and how good will the quality of life be after a divorce?

The Friendship Zone

You're traveling through another dimension -- a dimension not only of sight and sound but of mind. You're moving into a land of both shadow and substance. That's a signpost up ahead: your next stop: the Friendship Zone!

The Friendship Zone

Have you got plenty of opposite sex friends but no one to date? Do you find yourself just friends with the guy or girl you would most wish to date? If so, you may well be stuck in the friendship zone. Like the Twilight Zone, the friendship zone can be a place of mystery and terror. The mystery: "Why haven't they noticed how much I love them?". The terror: "They better never find out I love them, it would ruin our friendship" And so you remain trapped in the fifth dimension forever.

How do you break out?

You have to do the scariest thing of all: make a decision. If you decide to try your luck and tell them your feelings, then you are taking a risk. While there is no guarantee of success, there are many examples of people finding their soul mate while breaking out of the friendship zone. If you decide just to remain friends, you must act on that and go look for dating material elsewhere and not remain stuck. Like the Twilight Zone episodes, your friendship zone experience may have an unexpected twist but you can be certain of thrills and excitement.

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